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Group Travel 101: A Soloist Takes a Team Vacation in Africa

Group Travel 101: A Soloist Takes a Team Vacation in Africa About a year before Africa, I took a road trip with my friend Kathy, a writer and editor from Minnesota. We wanted to see Savannah, which we did between downpours. One day when we were holed up at the hotel during another storm, Kathy got an email about a possible trip to Africa. Would I like to do this? We figured we could room together – the road trip experiment was going well, even if my car did leak on the passenger side. Kathy’s smart, funny and a great traveler. She was tolerating me. I said, “Sure!” And then we waited. Travels with Lisa If you’ve read even a few of my posts, you know I mostly travel alone. I’m not inflexible because I do travel with and visit friends now and then. But in my entire adult life I’d never taken a group trip, except for short, small-group excursions. The Africa email came from Lisa Koon. She owns Panorama Travel in San Diego and would host the trip. Kathy had traveled with her before. She said that Lisa offers trips to a group of regular clients, her “usual suspects.” Most of them have traveled together often. Many are long-time friends and neighbors. Even people in the eventual Africa group who didn’t know each other would have friends in common. It sounded rather familial. I could do it. I have several posts about the Africa trip. This post is just to confess that yes, I’m an independent, I took a group trip, and I enjoyed it. Shows it doesn’t pay to be rigid. Our itinerary was creative and kept us running, probably on the theory that you can rest when you get home. I sure needed to. We covered a lot of distance, from Dubai to Cape Town, and had experiences that varied from pre-dawn safari start-offs on freezing Botswana mornings to a Cape Malay cooking class in Cape Town. Lisa and her contacts in Africa also remediated the unexpected – a hotel that burned (before we arrived, and no one hurt), a flight schedule change that upended hotel arrangements, luggage left behind by Air Namibia, and the other things I usually handle for myself. So I got to rest. Togetherness (I’m behind camera!) The “team” was about 17 of us, plus Lisa and daughter Monica who was along both for the trip and to help with logistics. There were old friends, cousins, a mother and daughter, sisters-in-law. As for Lisa herself – redoubtable, funny, multilingual and international. Most of the other travelers had knit into groups long before this trip, but I was absorbed into the collective. And one of the nice things about being with a group was that when four of us were without luggage and a change of clothes for three full days, we had more offers to share than we could accept. Kathy lent sunscreen, insect repellent, laundry soap, two tee shirts and a windbreaker. Others also offered clothes, and I borrowed some Skechers whose memory foam adapted to my feet right away. Will Candy ever be able to wear them or are they still crying for me? Together and alone I did one thing alone – I traveled solo to Dubai where I spent a day before the others arrived and I traveled home alone from Cape Town. That schedule suited me better. I enjoyed my solo flights and my day alone in Dubai, so I’m not giving up my independent ways. But the Africa trip was good, and every form of travel has positives. I like being alone, but I also enjoyed the congenial group. There’s a lot to learn from other travelers, and I laughed more than I do alone. It’s also fun having someone laugh at you when you get caught in interlocking mosquito nets. Without a roommate, who’d know? I did miss the direct engagement that I have with the itinerary and service providers and guides. But I wouldn’t have put together the same trip Lisa did with her experience and on-the-ground knowledge. So, yes. It was good, the perfect group experience for a confirmed independent. I look forward to more offerings by Lisa now that I’m a “usual suspect,” and maybe I’ll even meet up with Candy and her Skechers again.

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Traveling in the Rain: Into Every Life a Little Rain Must Fall . . .

Traveling in the Rain: Into Every Life a Little Rain Must Fall . . . If you are planning an outdoor adventure, you’ll know how to prepare, or you should. But a nice holiday that you envision to be sun-filled can turn out very gray. We’ve all had rainy travel days, but now and then it’s a rainy season. I’ve had some exceptionally rainy trips. How do you make it through, say, two wet weeks? Or more? How to Survive a Rainy Vacation when “The Rain it Raineth Every Day.” The first maxim is grin and bear it. Really. Otherwise it’s a total ruin, and do you want to tell your friends you had a lousy trip? I don’t. Beyond that, it’s a matter of equipment and choices. Equipment is your rain gear; choices are your activities. If you want to be outside, your equipment has to be adequate. Choices include cafés, restaurants, museums, churches, castles, tents – anything with a roof. Preparation I check the local weather in the run-up to departure. That’s obvious but it’s never a guarantee, is it. A favorite line I saw when planning a trip in Tasmania is, “be prepared for sudden and severe deterioration of the weather.” You could say this about many places. As for planning, when I’m out on rainy days at home, I project myself into a trip. What would make me comfortable in weather like this? Then, if it would make me comfortable, is it packable? I also ponder really wet past trips and what worked. Pouring in Sarlat-la-Canéda, France My six key things for rain Shoes. I’ve seen cute rain boots but don’t want to pack them unless I know I’m going to have a soggy trip. As for general travel shoes, I’ve had rainy weather success with suede Mephistos. I’m about to try some new Munro shoes with water resistant uppers. Both are good for walking and are dressy or cute enough for most travel entertainments. Be aware of shoes decorated with perforations. I have some cute ones but my feet get wet. That doesn’t mean I don’t pack them, but they’re not for heavy rain. Sandals. My vintage Clark’s Indigo sandals that have been around the world with me have served in the rain. My feet get wet but I can dry feet and shoes effectively, and the shoes weren’t so expensive that I agonize over them. Clark’s Wendy Laurel sandals are similar. You get wet, but they dry well enough. When it’s seriously hot and wet I’ve worn Crocs flip-flops (thongs). Boots. My ankle height Aquatalia boots go whenever it’ll be cool, rainy or snowy. Sometimes they go if it’s just forecast to be chilly. They never leak, but don’t shout “rain boot,” and can go anywhere. Water repellent. I’m not using any right now. When I lived in Minnesota, I massaged leather shoes with mink oil and sprayed suede shoes with water and stain repellent. Since moving away, I haven’t done any waterproofing. I no longer want to use the toxic, highly flammable chemicals in the sprays I’ve looked at. There are a couple of natural products that I plan to try but haven’t. Coats and Jackets Jacket or coat – with detachable hood if you can get it. I have a dark khaki three-quarter length coat with a zip-off hood. I only attach the hood if the weather requires. Another jacket I like for warmer rainy weather is a light-weight REI jacket, also with a detachable hood. My LL Bean H2Off raincoat’s great in the rain. Its hood doesn’t detach, but the hood’s black like the coat so looks decent enough to wear with dressier clothes. I’ve worn long raincoats that are useful in blowing rain, but I find that for the most part, all that fabric gets in my way. There are lots of raincoat choices. A friend has a stylish JJill raincoat that folds into a pocket. I like it. I always keep an eye out for other people’s raincoats to find new ones that have promise. Rainy in Kraków, Poland Travel Umbrella One of my prize possessions is an old Samsonite folding umbrella that is nearly weightless and folds up so little and flat that it’s easy to put in a purse or pocket. It’s a perfectly good-sized umbrella too. I bought two new ones in 2016 but the formerly metal parts are now plastic. While they are still light and small, I’ll see how they wear. Socks I like SmartWool winter and summer unless I’m in sandals. The SmartWool makes my feet cozy in wet weather, and the socks dry pretty fast. For light duty, I’m also using some microfiber no-show socks that wick moisture. Only they show in most of my shoes. Fabrics There is lots of advice about fabrics. Unless I plan to be sweating a lot (when I want a moisture-wicking fabric), my rain preferences are cotton, merino wool and cashmere, depending on the season. Merino wool comes in various weights and is good almost year round. Hats I have an old, black, large, wool beret that is good against light rain and generally excellent under an umbrella for any rain. (No one in France would actually wear this even though it was made there.) It also helps keeps my coif intact because humidity is a big problem for me. For cold rain and snow, especially if it’s windy, I use a knit hat. It looks really – not great. And it messes up the hair. But it keeps my ears warm. Rainy spring Monday in Melbourne, Australia

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In Defense of Travel Breakfast!

In Defense of Travel Breakfast! Eat breakfast! Eat healthy! Eat efficiently! I read Smarter Travel online all the time. The writers have to make a lot of lists, and I read through them for those hacks that help me be a more efficient traveler. Now and then I find topics and products for follow-up. And some of the lists are humorous. I pass by a lot too. But I couldn’t blow by a list of biggest travel time wasters that included “Having Breakfast”! The item reads: “Waking up to a hotel breakfast might seem like a convenient way to start the day, but it can be a huge time suck. When you’ve got a packed itinerary ahead of you, there’s no time to be leisurely surveying the continental spread. Instead of the big breakfast, opt for something on the go. You can grab a pastry and a coffee at a local cafe and get a jumpstart on the day.” You’ve Got to Eat No, no, no! I never skip the breakfast spread. There are a couple of reasons. First, it’s nutritionally better to eat breakfast, and I like it anyway. Don’t skip a decent breakfast for a high-carb pastry and coffee. Second, nothing’s open yet when I’m at breakfast. I can eat and still get in an early walk before the crowds or be first in the queue when things open up. And a good breakfast gives me the stamina for that “packed itinerary”! Before I go on, it’s important to note that I’m talking about the breakfast spreads that are included with a room (or come with a slight extra charge). They can be big or simple. You arrive, someone checks your name on a list (or not), and you eat – no waiting for a check. A hotel restaurant breakfast is different. Now, in defense of Smarter Travel, they did say the breakfast “can be” a huge time suck. The key to the breakfast buffet is to eat efficiently! If you’re early like I am, enjoy looking at the spread and change up your menu daily. Or if you’re in a hurry, don’t peruse 100 or however many options. Target something you like – bread and cheese, eggs, tofu, whatever – eat, and go. My happy egg Get it to Go You can probably get the coffee to go, too. When I’ve been hurrying, I’ve taken a boiled egg or bread and cheese and left. The hotel breakfast buffet doesn’t have to take any longer than standing on line for all those carbs. And the good breakfast keeps me from having to eat again for a long time. Unless a lunch or dinner is part of the day’s plan – for example, traditional local meal, a special restaurant, a moment of down time – these can be my time suck meals. It’s when I might grab some takeaway. Everything on my “packed itinerary” is hopping now, and I don’t want to waste minutes unless the meal itself is the goal. The yogurt was the last course

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